For your daughter/son to “hit” every routine at the biggest meet of the year would be probably something like a minor miracle. With all of the distractions, the pressure, the expectations, the fear of failure, and on and on, “hit” everything? No wobbles on a 4” beam 4 feet high with everything riding on every move? For an 8-year-old? We are more realistic than that, aren’t we?
Could your daughter/son be 95% successful with their routines in the next few weeks, and you be disappointed? Scary. Pretty stressful on you, too, if you are looking for perfection under the circumstances. Be wowed by all of the things that your athlete does right at the big meet. Understand what they are going through rather than concentrating on what you are hoping for. You know, that minor miracle. There are some parents who will be in the stands who might as well be wearing a t-shirt that says “1st Place Is The Only Place.” I hope that isn’t you.
The biggest meet of the year is a challenge for everyone. I think it is a place where people should marvel at the accomplishments of these young kids. Don’t spoil this special experience by having unrealistic goals for your child. The parents in the stands at the big meet should be shaking their heads in wonderment rather than disappointment. You are watching some exceptional young people out there. Please keep sports in perspective.
Very little of the importance of the big meet has to do with who is holding the biggest trophy at the end.
Tom Burgdorf – Author
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